Bethany A. Bower

Oct 16 1959 - Feb 25, 1988

   Sometimes when one person is missing, the whole world seems so big and empty. That's how Pam and I feel without you. We have pictures and loving memories to cherish, but no new happy moments to spend or to share with you. We always have you in our hearts, but that sure isn't like having you here with us.

   As devastatingly painful as our loss is, compared to your loss it is small. You never had a chance to live your hopes and dreams. Your time and your life ended so violently. You had to die in pain, frightened and alone.

   You were always so full of life, so full of mischief and fun. Always so quick to beam your beautiful face and smile to someone. And you always were ready to reach out to try to help someone.

   Now my dearest daughter, you will join the other beautiful faces of your companions on this quilt and go forward with a very strong message to all that you will be meeting face-to- face. It is my hope that all who meet you, as the quilt travels, will take the time to see each of your faces, and let your faces make a difference in their lives. Everyone should become committed to "End Violence and Murder" .Your faces need to be the only ones on the quilt.

There should never be another face or person added. I send

you out with all of my love to make that difference, face-to-face. With much love always,

 Your Mom, Cathy Bower Your Sister, Pamela Bower